BIRTH OF MY DARLING AROMA

{24 August 2012}  

This day is very special because an angel came to my life. My sweet baby was born after a struggle of 13 hours. She too was exhausted and couldn't support herself to get out of her mother's womb. My wife too was in agony.

I was all alone and knew nothing about Indore, since my baby was premature and under weight, she had to be taken care in NICU so we were told by someone to go to M.Y.Hospital. As we reached there we found the place of delivery full of vomit, urine and spit. No Doctor was there to attend us. The condition of my wife was going bad to worse so my wife and I thought of going to some other hospital near by but the hospital (MY) not provided stretcher to carry my wife down from second floor to ground floor. Lift was not given to use so I lifted up my wife in my arms and climb down the stairs. Somehow reached at the entrance of the Hospital but no means of transportation was there, I started crying for help after a long time an auto rickshaw came who too demanded a big amount, I agreed to pay any amount since it was the question of life and death of my baby and wife. Soon we reached a nearby hospital Nobel by name. There too people demanded 30000 to deposit advance. I had around 20000 that I gave and by the time my wife was in the operation theater, I went to get money from the ATM. After some time a doctor [Mrs Shagun Jain] came and told me that she would try to have a normal delivery as she had seen me worried out of the O.T. There my baby was taken out by suction as we have seen in the movie 'Three Idiots'. It was because both, the mother and the child were exhausted and couldn't cooperate. My sweet baby was of 1KG and 800grms. She didn't cry at the time of birth so the doctors told me that they won't be able to tell me weather she would survive[I didn't tell this to my wife till my baby was of 4 months]. Next day in spite of having 8 stitches, my wife stood up and washed her clothes and had khichadi that was available in one of the nearby hotels (Chotiwala) . Next day baby had to be breastfed but there was no milk due to no proper food. I was feeling sorry for my helplessness. Next day the canteen was opened and we could get daliya, coffee and some other things. We were there for seven days and on eight day we came back to Dhamnod.. This is unforgettable experience and day of my life.

God has blessed me with two lives one for my wife and second for my daughter Aroma. I don't desire to have next child because we both believe that one girl child is equal to 10 boys.. This is a true story of my life with some things excluded...